The Concept of Sexuality

The Murder of Cupid

 

I've always found it very strange - as well as telling - that human sexuality in the Patriarchy is so extremely different from what animals experience as natural. As it is, in some respects, human sexuality moves along paths that can't even be called natural or just biologically based: They obviously are culturally based, fitting a Patriarchal system that basically goes against Nature. 

Mommy LOVES you!!!

 

Had this Mommy bear not had that precious baby, she may have felt that her "romantic moment" with that one of the several male bears she mated with was a waste of time - or maybe not. As it is, the very idea that the female doesn't want sex in the mating season is ridiculous, but when reading about animals and their sex-life it's often described as if the male is promiscuous, and "the female sometimes have more partners" as if that was something very strange. However, the female is the one with the biological clock, claiming SEX as her body directs her to do. The male may have sex if he fits into her agenda of breeding. If not, then he will have to go without sex, as nothing in Nature takes heed of his urges out of the female based mating season. 

In a human Patriarchy, the male is seen as the one who sort of outlines what sexuality is. That makes me suspect that somewhere along the lines of history, when men grabbed power, and the Patriarchy was formed, their sexuality came to represent the common, human sexuality of both sexes. However, that doesn't make it NATURAL, as culture isn't Nature.

 

In confined spaces, like e.g. on a farm, male animals may get "ideas", so to speak, but Nature it's not. Actually, I think the same goes for humans, which may speak against the one man and one woman kind of romance and matrimony. However, society being what society is at this moment in history (i.e. 2025), most women still want to get married, also because the age of kids growing up to adulthood is set very high in many Western countries. That being the case, the parent, who is obliged by the law to take care of the child, is stuck in a very severe manner, although they themselves may not see it that way.

 

 

In a Patriarchy, it seems quite normal for a man to claim sex, whereas the woman isn't met with the same kind of tolerance. Much is to be said about that system, but at this point I shall just point to one fact of Nature: Women - just as animal females - are not to be used as some kind of "sex toys". They are not set to gain access to sex or influence through looks, as the males are: No animal breed goes by a system where the female is bound to be the pretty one, luring on males who may look like shit, and still have sex. On the contrary.

Male peacock flaunting his stuff

 

 

 

https://www.bearsmart.com/about-bears/reproduction 

 

 

"Sexus Animalis. There Is Nothing Unnatural In Nature" by Emmanuelle Poydebat; The MIT Press, Cambridge, 2022

 

 

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The Karma Game

 

True, but what if you feel a FALSE HAPPINESS at something which ought to make you ANGRY for moral or personal reasons? As it is, the world being what it is, happiness isn't a fixed and perfect state of mind, but much more like an ongoing process. Sometimes one doesn't even know that a certain time in one's life contains a (rare) amount of HAPPINESS because one doesn't recognize it as such. The reason for that may be that one's focus is on something that, after all, is of less importance in the long run. To see something not good as "happiness" tie us down, and we don't even know. 

Some would say that this is the photo of a poor child in strained circumstances. I would say that being young and open to adventures makes this child happy. Should he fight the squalor? Yes, in the long run, but not at this age when he is fully enjoying the opportunities for entertainment it gives him.

So they say, yes, so they say, but I'm not too sure about that kind of justice by fate. Too many murderers got away with their crimes for me to believe in Karma. Some people simply are lucky to get away with everything. It shouldn't be that way, but it is.

 

The Daughter of Rasputin

 

Maria Rasputin, during an interview (1930)

The world knew the Russian monk Rasputin as a somber influence on the wife of the last tsar, Nicholas II (1868-1918). How did he gain that much power over the otherwise sedate and prudish tsarina Alexandra Feodorovna (1872-1918), who was the grandchild of Queen Victoria of England?

Rasputin with Alexandra Feodorovna and the Romanov children 

Well, the tsarina believed that he was a "holy man" who was the only one to be able to save her beloved, only son, tsarevich Alexei Nikolevich. When Rasputin - and later on the Romanovs too - was murdered his children had to fend for themselves. 

Only three of Rasputin's seven children survived to adulthood, and two of them died after The Revolution. The one surviving child was his daughter Matryona, who changed her name into "Maria" and somehow got new documents for herself and her husband, the officer Boris Solovyov. That made it possible for the couple to leave Russia, entering a dangerous and difficult journey that took two years before they settled in Berlin for four years until moving to Paris. Difficult as it was, this escape saved the life of Maria, making her the only surviving Rasputin-child. 

Her life as an exile reads like something out of a fantasy as she moved around the world, working as a cabaret dancer, a circus performer as well as a lion tamer. At no point did she admit that her father held any guilt whatsoever which is something that doesn't hold water, so to speak. His influence on the Romanov family wasn't healthy, to say the least. As to Maria then, she died in Los Angeles in 1977.

https://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/the-many-lives-of-maria-rasputin-daughter-of-the-mad-monk 

 

https://www.imdb.com/name/nm10570848/bio/ 

 

Wikipedia

 

The Chicken Raping Father of Four

 

I'm wondering at this case: When the fake asylum seeker in UK, Rehan Baig, was sentenced to 3 years in prison for sexually abusing his chickens as well as other animals, I wondered at the - in my opinion - much too short sentence. When raping the chickens, he killed them in a painful manner, something which was recorded on his computer along with child pornography. Still, his sentence was reduced - WHY??? 

And what about his wife, who seems to have engaged in some acts of a dubious character? (He alternated between having sex with the animals and his wife, which may be the reason why she preferred to see him engage in his animal abuse instead of using her as a sex toy).

According to "Quora" sex with animals is OK for Muslims: "Homosexual & sex with animals (zoophilia bestiality) are permitted in islam. Just wash your genital after that. From the website at the bottom you scroll down until you find "Commentary of Imam Al Nawawi on the Hadith of Sahih Muslim, book 003, number 0684, "Our companions have said that if the penile (penis) head has penetrated A WOMAN’S ANUS, or A MAN’S ANUS, or AN ANIMAL’S VAGINA or ITS ANUS then it is necessary to wash whether the one being penetrated is alive OR DEAD, YOUNG OR OLD, whether it was done intentionally or absentmindedly, whether it was done willfully or forcefully. This also applies if the woman places the male member inside her while the man is asleep, whether the penis is erect or not, whether the penis is circumcised or uncircumcised. All these situations require that the person committing the act and the one the act is committed on must wash themselves, unless the person committing the act or the person the act is committed on is a young male or female. In that case it cannot be said that the person must wash, for they do not have the responsibility, rather it is said that this person is in a state of impurity. If that person can discern (the sexual act) then his guardian can.....". The rest you read it by yourself. It's also written & explained by CP “The Deception of Allah” on p. 153, "Women are Sex Toys". Here's the webs The Quran’s Confused Stance on Sexual Ethics "

"Confused"??? That's for sure and what's more, living in a Western country means following the laws of that country, not some Muslim rules!!!! 

However, somehow Mr. Baig got off what should have been a much less lenient punishment for what he did, also as to other offences, e.g. concerning children: WHY??? 

 

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8856287/Pervert-37-jailed-three-years-having-sex-CHICKENS.html 

 

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-leeds-54608083 

 

Penis Broodings

 

The joys of the penis

Freud thought the female sex suffered from what he called "penis envy". That crazy idea seems to stem from his belief that women were just being imperfect men. Something which reminds me of the name for the female sex organs, e.g. in the time of Shakespeare: "Nothing". 

Yup, women "don't have anything down there" as it can't be seen the way a penis can. Somehow, men are in awe of moveables changing form and becoming visible even though it's not in itself an accomplishment, especially not when compared to women getting pregnant, giving birth and breastfeeding their babies: That takes stamina, determination and love, also because it's a genuine strain on the body. The erection, on the other hand, is nothing but a physical reaction, in many ways much like the urge to go to the bathroom and relieve oneself of what needs to go. No matter what, there is nothing impressive in bowel movements, right? However, a male mythology has arisen in connection with the penis and the erection, which go on a lot of biassed notions of male achievements.   

Henry VIII of England (1491-1547)

In his attempt to father a legitimate son, two wives of Henry VIII were executed. That's a high price to pay for his vanity, but without a male heir his royal name and house would evaporate at his death, which was one of his main concerns. It was with great pride he told his doctors of his being able to have three nightly sperm releases in his sleep, as that was something he saw as a grand proof of his masculinity and virility. Nothing pleased him more than his own maleness and the way he saw it. Actually, that interpretation of what's mere bodily functions is quite important to understand what's going on ideologically: Erections are seen as achievements. I bet rhinoceroses, who have been hunted mercilessly for their horns, which are seen as good for the male potency, will disagree. 

What also has been hunted by men in need of getting rid of what is pushing to get out are "virgins": The pedophile's dream is very, very young girls who presumably have no sexual experiences whatsoever. These kinds of girls don't compare them to former lovers, and they may not even know what an orgasm is. They become a sort of "cum-socks with a pulse", a toy or just means to combat those "blue balls" they hate. 

The interpretation of the penis and its functions also opens up to a special power game: Language itself reveals the male dreams of conquering and subjecting women with their penis. It's not "my penis went into that deep, dark room called a vagina and was gone". No, it's more like "I got her, subjected her or had my way with her": The act is first and foremost seen from his perspective and not hers. Actually, she might call him her "scratcher" or something else on that line, but instead she is interpreted as a "hole" or something just as derogatory. 

When it comes to anatomy, it seems that many young men have no idea of what one of the main difference between male and female sex organs is. I've seen heated discussions on e.g. Reddit where some young man simply refuses to understand that women have one more "hole" than a man. As it is, all women have three: 1) Anus, 2) The Vagina, and 3) The Urethrae. He, being a man, only has two, just like the Monotreme: 1) Anus and 2) Penis for semen as well as urine. 

 

https://www.bps.org.uk/psychologist/sigmund-freud-and-penis-envy-failure-courage 

 

https://boobytrapec.blogspot.com/2024/06/blue-as-balls.html 

 

https://boobytrapec.blogspot.com/2025/01/bodily-discharges.html 

 

Wikipedia

Female None the Less

 

Well, I admit that "Stagecoach Mary" Fields (1832-1914) did resemble the grizzly bear she often was compared to in looks and demeanour, but I find her to be a grand and stately woman. Actually, in my opinion she is somewhat of an ideal woman, although not in the ordinary sense of the beauty standards of the Patriarchy which goes for the petite and the not physically threatening. When I see photos of Mary, it's obvious that she was anything but petite, and she may often have set out to be threatening because of her job: She was the first black woman who was employed as a postwoman in the USA. 

Mary, standing six feet tall, drove more than 300 miles across the wolf-packed Wild West, week by week in the late 1800s to deliver mail in the job she got when she was a 63 years old freed slave. She seems to have been very beloved as well as venerated in the town where she lived in Montana, even though she was anything but "feminine" in either looks or behavior. 

There are many legends about her, which go on her boozing and fist-fighting. One of them is about the laundromat she opened in Cascade, Montana: When having a good time drinking in a saloon, she saw a customer outside the bar, who had "forgotten" to pay his laundry bill. That was something she didn't accept and she got hold of him, punched him in the face and returned to declare: "His bill is paid!"
 

Mary with Cowboy-Eddy

 

https://allthatsinteresting.com/stagecoach-mary-fields

 

https://www.blackpast.org/african-american-history/fields-mary-1832-1914/ 

  

https://countryranch.com/blogs/stories/celebrate-heritage-stagecoach-mary 

 

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Women Chosing To Have NO BABIES After Roe Was Overturned

 

This young lady, The Michigan State Rep. Laurie Pohutsky, has received death threats over something which after all is a private matter in the life of a woman: Her uterus was not kept ready for what the present government wanted it to be, namely babies. WHY???? Some ask themselves, women do love babies, right???? Doesn't Laurie like very young citizens when she, as a woman, "was built to adore them"?????? To some, a voluntary sterilization simply is "against Nature" so "what's wrong with Laurie?????"

 

Well, like many other bright and alert American women of today, she rightfully  was concerned about the future of the extremely important health care for women after tRump came back in office. Neither he nor his sidekick, Elon Musk, gives room for the wishes of women outside of the tired kitchen-bed-cliche. I remember an old interview with said tRump from the time when he left his first wife, Ivana, for Marla Maples, when he said that the reason for the divorce was that she had got "loose down there", and that she "behaved more like a colleague than a wife/lover when she came back home from her job". It gave me a very vivid impression of his need for a certain kind of "femininity", no matter how artificial and outdated it is. 

 

 

One of the things Laurie Pohutsky said was: "I refuse to let my body be treated as currency by an administration that only sees value in my ability to procreate." Wise words that show insight and the ability to think forward in a world of realities that are not what they should be. And, what's more, she may have received death threats, but she is not alone: A new research letter published September 11 in JAMA shows that tubal sterilization rates among females rose in the second half of 2022. The researchers looked at data from insurance claims from 2021 and 2022 for around 4.8 million females who underwent tubal ligations.12. Apr. 2024. And what did they find? Nothing more than should have been expected: More women got their tubes tied after Roe was overturned. That should be a warning to those men (and women) who still live in a romantic fantasy of docile women.

 

 

 

https://www.newsweek.com/michigan-laurie-pohutsky-sterilization-surgery-donald-trump-2027862

 

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/feb/08/sorry-lily-collins-but-when-people-outsource-childbirth-their-motives-really-count 

https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/world-news/women-enslaved-human-farm-egg-34638315?

https://www.nbcnews.com/health/womens-health/permanent-birth-control-increasing-abortion-bans-rcna147264

 

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