One thing is the often bothersome old age alle of us experience if we live long enough. Another thing is the difference between being old and being one's age. As long as one doesn't be one's age, life is still an adventure and worth living.
No, old age is not the same as not being able to appreciate male beauty. Why would it be? After all many old men still notice (beautiful) women.
When she was young she may have been sedate and a "good girl", but now she set her true personality free and has fun. Maybe her kids and grandchildren are shocked, but obviously she doesn't bother about that.
