When Irony Is Or Looks Heartless

That's cruel, or would be cruel, if it was said without irony, which I think it is - or rather, I choose to think it is. On the other hand, there is no real proof that it wasn't said in earnest, and - as some events over the years have proved - were a very, very earnest comment to a sad situation. No doubt about it, homeless people are not the favorites of those who have a home. I think that one of the main reasons for that is that the utter vulnerability of the homeless or just poor people feels like a warning to those who are neither. They see that they themselves may end up on a public bench somewhere, but without being welcome:

 

To be without a home may mean losing one's life because one being a "have-not" turns one into a target for fed up-"haves" who may even blame one for whatever is wrong in his/her life. That may turn one into someone who is totally at the mercy of people who hates and fears one as a social scapegoat for whatever is wrong in society. Also, it will be difficult to leave one's life as a homeless, e.g. by getting a job because to apply for one it's necessary to bathe and earn decent clothes: Those who have are to get more, and those who have not are to lose what they have .... 

That's quite thought-provoking, especially in these years of what looks like very evil and suspicious Trumpian plannings. To turn former landowners into abject homeless hordes may enrich the rich people who come to own their lost property. Also, it furnishes those rich individuals with the access to cheap labor, as homeless or very poor people will be a easy prey to them. 

 

Was it planned for years as is stated in the above statement? I shouldn't wonder if that is the case, but I lack substantial proofs of those plans.  

This guy, sleeping on the pavement, can do that when it's not freezing, and if he/she knows where to get free or extremely cheap food. Something I don't think is all that easy to come by, also because many are out for the same.

Yup, instead of one Don the Con, these people need another FDR, but where is he/she? The right man/woman doesn't seem to come easy these days.

 

That's a smart man, but he isn't an everyday-guy. Not many would be able to pull such a stunt off

 

https://www.whitehouse.gov/presidential-actions/2025/07/ending-crime-and-disorder-on-americas-streets/ 

Poem by Else Cederborg

 

Poem by Else Cederborg: "Building Humans"

Close in on empty buildings
you find them everywhere
although shaped in human form, they erode
all that's left is fleshy rubble

Don't let anybody else take possession
fill them with laughter, smiles and love
maybe the soul will return in due time
the erosion may be halted, love reinstalled
rejoice, one human rebuilt and saved
actually, a whole breathing city may be rebuilt

ALL rights reserved © Else Cederborg

 

Exploitation of A Teenage-Queen

Lady Jane Grey (1536/1537–1554), Aka Lady Jane Dudley, Aka "The Nine Days Queen"

Being the cousin of Edward VI (1537-1553), and his half-sisters, Mary (I) and Elizabeth (I) didn't save the life of this great-granddaughter of Henry VII through his youngest daughter, Mary Tudor. Neither did it save her to become the heiress of king Edward VI and thus inheriting his throne as the Queen of England and Ireland on the 10th of July, 1553. On the contrary, it cost her her life as she was deposed by the Privy Council of England on the 19th of July, 1553, and beheaded in the morning of the 12th of February, 1554.

 

The irony of this sad tale of a young queen's downfall was that Jane didn't even want to inherit the throne of her cousin. She, who was brought up to be a dedicated Protestant, was a very learned and intellectual, young woman for her time, speaking and studying Latin, Hebrew and Greek. Hunting and other normal pastimes for people of her class didn't appeal to her as much as various academic studies. Nothing indicates that she was pining for the exalted status of the monarchy or that she had even thought about who was to inherit the throne of her cousin, Edward VI.

The son of Henry VIII and his third wife, Jane Seymour, Edward VI was brought up to believe that his half-sisters, Mary (I) and Elizabeth (I) were disowned by their father and that they were "illegitimate". As it was, Henry VIII had been married to their mothers, but the circumstances of both these marriages had turned the king against his daughters. In the opinion of Edward, and out of respect for his late father, none of them were acceptable as queens of England. Thus the natural heir to his throne would be his cousin, namely the great-granddaughter of Henry VII, 16 or 17 year old Jane Grey. However, one of his ulterior motives for choosing Jane over his eldest half-sister, Mary, was that she was a protestant, whereas Mary was a staunch Catholic.

 

Edward VI's "devise for the Succession"

Jane had not yet been crowned as a queen, and that may have given those who supported Mary's claim to the throne hope. The Privy Council, which had accepted the choice by Edward VI and thus honored Jane as the queen, suddenly changed sides and deposed her, only ten days after proclaiming her his heiress. That meant that Mary won the game, so to speak, and became the new queen on 19 July 1553. 

 

Mary I 

Poor Jane, she obviously was more of a puppet for her very ambitious father-in-law, John Dudley, 1st Duke of Northumberland. Mary knew that and intended to spare her life as an innocent victim of her father-in-law's machinations, but then Jane's father did something in her opinion unforgivable: He became involved with Wyatt's rebellion against Mary's intention of marrying her maternal relative, Philip of Spain. As Mary was set upon this marriage his "treason" became the last straw, so to speak, and both Jane and her husband were executed on 12 February 1554. I see that as very unfair to the teenager who didn't have the ambitions of becoming the new monarch, but was talked into accepting the throne that was handed her by the late king, Edward VI. 

 This portrait may be of Jane as she looked at the time of her death. If so, then there is a strong resemblance to her cousin, Elizabeth I

 

https://www.hrp.org.uk/tower-of-london/history-and-stories/lady-jane-grey/ 

 

Wikipedia 

 

Britannica 

The American Bonaparte

 

 

The beautiful American heiress Elizabeth Patterson (1785-1879) was considered a "catch" as her Maryland-family was affluent and of good standing with many influential people of their own class. Her father, William Patterson, was an Irish immigrant who had done well in his new country of America, as he was the second richest man in Maryland. His son, Robert, got married to the daughter, namely Marianne Caton, of the richest man in Maryland, Charles Carroll. The Caroll-family could boast an arch bishop, and the 24th of December, 1803, he married a young couple, 18 and 20 years old. The young bride, Elizabeth Patterson, wore what was considered a "risque" gown, but that wasn't the reason why the First Consul from 1799 to 1804, Napoleon Bonaparte (1769-1821) was enraged by this wedding. And yup, this was that enraged Bonaparte:

 

Napoleon Bonaparte who was to become Emperor Napoleon I on the 2nd of December 1804

 

 

 

Napoleon's enormous ambitions were not only for himself, but for his entire family, and he had other plans for the young man who married Elizabeth Patterson, namely his youngest brother, Jerome (1784-1860). There was no way Napoleon would accept this young, American woman as his sister-in-law, heiress and beauty or not.

 

 

 

Mr. and Mrs. Jerome Bonaparte

 

Before the wedding, Elizabeth's father, William Patterson, had received several more or less anonymous letters, some of them telling him that Jerome was a Casanova, out to seduce and then leave his daughter. All these letters were aimed at putting a stop to the wedding, but that didn't happen: Married they were, and then the threats from France changed into demands for an annulment. Obviously, there was no way, that the by now French emperor, Napoleon I, would accept the American marriage of his youngest brother. When the young couple set off to France to reason with him, he ushered a prohibition of her as much as setting foot on any country, that he ruled. It didn't exactly help the situation that she by now was pregnant: He still demanded an annulment of the otherwise fully legal marriage.

 

 

 

Jerome went to France, but Elizabeth chose to give birth to their son, Jerome Napoleon Bonaparte (1805-1870) in England. At the same time, Napoleon I did his best to make the then Pope annul the marriage of his brother and "that unfit American girl". When he didn't succeed, he simply annulled it himself in his capacity of Emperor, just as he himself, and not the pope, had crowned himself. As to the young father, Jerome Bonaparte, then he didn't put up much of a fight for his American wife. A fact that most likely stems from his "wild life" when a bachelor: He didn't have any money, but was landed with a substantial debt. Napoleon I, being so very ambitious for his family, made his brother marry the German princess Catharina of Wurttemberg. Also he was made a prince of Montfort and the king of Westphalen.

 

 

 

Jerome and his new wife, Catharina

 

Well, Napoleon I met his Waterloo in 1815, and his power over the royal houses of Europe which he had used for marrying his siblings off, was evaporating into thin air. His brother, Jerome, only kept his kingdom of Westphalen for six years, but in his marriage to Catharina he had two more sons and one daughter. When Catharina died in 1835, he married a very wealthy Italian noblewoman, Giustina Pecori-Suárez, in 1840, but whom he, for reasons unknown, kept secret for a long time. However, legally she was his wife, but he ended up divorcing her for an alleged adultery with one of his own illegitimate sons.

 

 

 

Giustina Pecori-Suárez 

 

At the same time, he tried to get some kind of reconciliation with Elizabeth who never remarried. He wanted her to send their son to him, but she refused: Jerome Napoleon Bonaparte stayed with her, becoming a successful American. 

 

Jerome Napoleon Bonaparte  

 

Even though Jerome studied law, he never practiced, but turned into what may be called a "gentleman-farmer". In his marriage to the heiress, Susan May Williams, he became the father of two sons, one of them was Charles Joseph Bonaparte (1851–1921), who also became a lawyer. He was a well-known liberal, fighting for humane laws, e.g. for blacks. When Theodore Roosevelt was the president, he was one of his men, and as such he started "The Bureau of Investigation", which became the FBI of today. 

 

 

 

Charles Joseph Bonaparte 

 

Wonder what Napoleon I would have said had he known that his intricate web of royal houses of Europe would crumble, but the American one, which he had refused to accept, would thrive and even grow stronger. That might have been a mental Waterloo for the once so mighty Emperor of France.

 

 Charles Joseph Bonaparte

 

https://www.geriwalton.com/elizabeth-patterson-bonaparte-wife-of-jerome-bonaparte/ 

 

https://www.napoleon.org/en/history-of-the-two-empires/biographies/bonaparte-jerome/ 

 

http://www.unofficialroyalty.com/napoleon-francois-charles-joseph-bonaparte-napoleon-ii/ 

 

https://geneee.org/charles+joseph/bonaparte?lang=da 

 

Wikipedia, etc.

 

When Amazon Is WEIRD

Last year I published several ebooks with Amazon, some of which are listed above. It was fun, up to a point, namely until I realized that the policy of the Trumpian wingman Jeff Bezos was as bad as the one of Mark Zuckerberg. Well, what can I say, except that I'm a woman of principles so all of a sudden, Amazon became a no-no-place for me. That's why I pulled all the ebooks that I myself had published with Amazon, but not those others had published as part of their publishing program. The list of my books with Amazon shrank to a minimum.

 

 

It felt quite good, but at the same time sad, but no matter how I felt, I couldn't overlook the fact that Bezos and Amazon are part of what I call the "tRump-Mafia" which is something I detest. However, after having pulled my Amazon-ebooks I started to notice the many complaints of my fellow writers, like e.g. this one on REDDIT, but without bringing the name of the person who wrote it: 

 

"My KDP was terminated for no reason. My entire body is shaking. I've published 14 books of fiction on Amazon and today I logged into my KDP account, and it said my account was terminated. There was no reason listed. I've received no email from Amazon or KDP. There was a "contact us" - and I sent a short email asking what had happened and that I had no idea why. As of this moment, my books are still listed on Amazon, but I suppose that will change and they will be taken down. Ten years of writing and self publishing, and I have played by all the rules. I truly jave zero ideas why this happened to me. I have even stopped publishing "wide" because I never wanted to "upset" Amazon if I was running a promotion and mis-remembered to pull a book down from Kobo during the promotion. I'm living in a nightmare. I welcome support. This came out of nowhere. I've purchased every cover image, worked with professional cover designers, have a Canva premium account where I use images that they have for marketing, also for marketing I purchase images off Depositphotos. Absolutely no clue. Dying here ...."

I know the name of this Amazon-writer, and I must say, that she certainly worked in a very serious manner. Her publishing-program is quite impressive, and should have secured her safety at the Amazon-platform. Was it her books they didn't like, or did they just feel like "deleting something" and chose her? As far as I know, she still hasn't received the reasons for why this happened to her, which brings me to a new point in this Amazon-tale: She is not the only one who may tell a gruesome tale of being ditched by Amazon. 

Another Amazon-user tells how the same happened to him, but that his books are still up. That's weird, and I wonder whether he is the victim of some kind of "shadow-banning": The page looks all right, but one is banned, and thus there is no sale.

One of those who have had the same experience indicates that the problem may be connected to the use of AI, which is not accepted anymore. However, there is no indication that that was the case, so there is really cause for alarm. The bereaved one points out troubles that are unbearable for a writer who made an effort when publishing:

"All my marketing, all my time and effort and all my reviews will go up in smoke. It's unbelievable. Not one word or email from Amazon or KDP about why or what is happening." 

Yup, that's what happens to most of those writers who don't treat their writings as a career and a trade which, in my opinion, ruins or disrupts the fun of it 

A lot of people on REDDIT tell their sorrowful tales of having had the same or similar experiences, and some also bring good advice: "They might have emailed you something you missed. My advice is to stay calm and polite in each email you send and to keep replies in the same email chain so you're not staring a new help ticket each time and there's a paper trail of their responses." That's sound advice, and in the end it may lead to a solution. At least, that's what I hope for her, also because to read that other authors have experienced what she did is shocking because to write and publish a book is something that resembles giving birth to a baby. One may not be quite happy with the life and destiny of one's child, but still, being the parent of someone means that everything bad happening to him/her stabs one in the heart ....

The "Fight" of the Boobs

 

Nobody has ever suggested that the Italian actress Sophia Loren (born the 20th of September 1934) wasn't a busty lady. How could they when she in her looks came very, very close to embodying the main female ideal of the 1950-1960'ies? That ideal was to be "curvy": Big breasts and full hips with a tiny waist, and all of that she was able to boast. Everything was in its place, so to speak, but I'm not sure that she was right when she said she owed it all to spaghetti. 

 

 

Anyway, Sophia was a world-famous movie star even before she met her American colleague, Jayne Mansfield (1933-1967), in Beverly Hills at the exclusive Romanoff's restaurant in 1957. 

 

 

 

That meeting gave rise to its own legends, when one of the photographers took a photo of these two busty ladies, and Sophia was caught glancing - or staring? - at the breasts of Jayne. 

 

 

Later on, she said that she was afraid that they might escape the dress of Jayne and thus give vent to a scandal, but the truth is that she looked utterly shocked which by many people was seen as envy as if she felt "out-busted" by the American star. As a bust being the key to a movie career in those days, it wasn't all that farfetched to interpret her side glance as a signal of envy, but what did she have to be envious about? Nothing!!!!

 

 

However, the peak time of the busty female stars was nearing its end with the birth of a new female beauty ideal. I think it started in 1953 when Audrey Hepburn gained fame with "Roman Holiday". She became the very first actress to win an Academy Award, a Golden Globe Award and a BAFTA Award for a single performance. In that same year, she also won a Tony Award for Best Leading Actress in a Play for her performance on "Ondine" without boasting a bust. On the contrary .... 

 

https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-jealousy-5190471 

 

Wikipedia 

Weird or Embarrasing Parents

 

 

Well, some parents are not just weird, but proud of being very, very strange. Also, they have a way of embarrassing their children, especially when they are with friends. As to the one above, I'm not sure that she did what she said. Actually, it's such a dumb ruse that I don't believe her - but still, it may have happened .... 

What are kids for? Right, they may come handy ....

Some poor children really have a hard time dealing with weird parents. Many stay weird even when moving to another country:  

Quora-question: "How can I deal with my parents being weird and strict? Honestly, they are so weird that they embarrass me in front of my friends. What can I do? By the way, my parents were both immigrants to the U.S. 20 years ago, but they still act Asian."

That's tough, as the only way to put an end to that situation will be to disown the Asian parents and start looking for some American ones. Hopefully, the frustrated Asian kid doesn't end up with someone like this:

In her opinion, a strangled baby may be better than no baby

Good times were once many years ago, and, sadly enough, many forget that they had such fun with a loving parent. They may even feel that they had an awful childhood.

Yup, the back of most grown-ups are built for piggy rides

 

Unfortunately, living in a patriarchy, some (mostly male) parents don't feel the same happiness at the birth of a daughter than of a son. For instance, king Henry VIII of England was very, very disappointed at the birth of his daughters, Mary and Elizabeth. Only Edward (VI) made him rejoice, as he needed a male heir to save the Tudor-dynasty. Actually, his daughters were of much more historical value ....

 

OK, I admit it's somewhat weird, but so what when it's also very, very loving?

A happy moment to remember when the time of old age comes for the big one, and adulthood for the small one, but, alas, many forget that it happened 

As long as we can't shop parents - or kids - we shall have to come to terms with "weirdness" while rejecting cruelty, abuse or murder. 

  

https://www.parents.com/ 

 

Wikipedia